How can boys improve their charm and improve their masculinity?

As a boy, of course you need to have your own image, and you must have charm and temperament. Therefore, the most important thing for boys to improve their image is to cultivate both inside and outside. In addition to the appearance, your own words and conversation are also indispensable.

1. Moral character.

Morality is the foundation of a person's life. Morality determines thoughts, thoughts determine actions, and actions determine results. If a person has poor moral character, the more capable he is, the more harm he may cause to society; if he has good moral character, the more capable he is, the greater the value he will create for society. Therefore, a man must have moral character first. This is why many girls first choose a boyfriend based on his good character.

A man's moral character includes having a kind heart, a sense of responsibility, civilized manners, polite conversation, good upbringing, stability, a broad mind, etc. To achieve these, you need to read more, learn more, always pay attention to correcting your words and deeds, constantly improve your upbringing, and make it a habit, integrate it into your blood, and finally turn it into moral character.

2. Ability:

The most effective way to improve a man's image is to improve his ability and make himself capable. In today's society, being promoted and getting rich is the best manifestation of ability: handsomeness depends on pockets; strength depends on officialdom. As long as you have money/power, your weak figure can become tall and majestic; as long as you have money/power, how you dress is reasonable. If you dress well, it means you have taste, and if you dress badly, it means you have personality.

Knowledge is acquired through learning, and ability is acquired through practice. Men should not be afraid of failure, but should have the courage to try, exercise, learn in practice, discard the dross, take the essence, and constantly make themselves stronger. Only when you experience more and more, your ability will become stronger and stronger. If you are a person who cannot be helped like Adou, then there is no way, even the gods cannot save you.

3. Confidence

Whether you are a man or a woman, as long as you are confident, you will be very attractive. Of course, confidence is not arrogance or narcissism, it is the embodiment of a man's strength. A woman's strength lies in her charm, while a man's strength lies in his courage, and this courage needs to be supported by confidence.

A confident man can fully understand his own abilities. He has a strong heart and is optimistic about the future. He bravely and positively faces any setbacks and failures in life. He will not be timid and afraid to act. A confident man must be a passionate person. Being with such a person will be invincible. Therefore, confident people can easily infect others and attract others to themselves.

4. Spirit

A man should be energetic, he cannot be listless or listless. If he looks sickly, how can people feel good about him?

This spirit needs to be achieved through a positive attitude, continuous exercise, regular work and rest, and a strong will. A good mental outlook is a temperament that radiates from the inside out, and it is much more effective than any other dressing. Even if I am exhausted today, I will still be full of energy and energetic tomorrow.

If a man wants to make more money and strive for a career, he must deal with all kinds of people in society. Although it is said that appearance is not the best way to judge a person, if you do not pay attention to your appearance, it is impossible to establish a good first impression in front of others. So, in this sense, the appearance is our first golden business card, and we must improve it.

Improving your appearance is divided into three modules: appearance, clothing, and others.

1. Appearance.

There are three key words that boys require about appearance: clean, tidy, and tasteless.

The face should be clean, shaved, and there should be no secretions in the corners of the eyes;

Hair should be washed and trimmed regularly, nose hair and eyebrows should be trimmed if they grow long, to look energetic;

Clothes don’t have to be high-end, but they must be clean and tidy, with buttons and threads not missing, and not sloppy;

Take a bath frequently, keep your breath fresh, and treat body odor early, you can spray some light perfume appropriately;

Sit properly and stand properly, and don't behave uncivilized. The ancients said: stand like a pine, sit like a bell, walk like the wind, lie like a bow. A good posture is good for the body and can also make us look more energetic.

I agree very much with what educator Zhang Boling once said: People can have bad luck, but they cannot have bad looks. The more unlucky you are, the more you should keep your face and hair clean, your clothes and shoes neat, so that people will feel fresh, bright and comfortable at first sight, and your bad luck will soon turn around.

No matter when, we must keep ourselves clean, tidy and tasteless so as not to be disliked by others.

2. Clothing.

There are three key words when it comes to men’s requirements for clothing: suitable for the heart, suitable for the body, and suitable for the occasion.

The principle of men's dressing is to fit their heart, body and occasion. First of all, it should be in line with your own heart. You should like to wear clothes that you don't like. You will feel uncomfortable and it will be difficult to wear them with charm. Secondly, it should fit your body. Clothes that are too big, too small, too long or too short are not suitable. Thirdly, it should be suitable for different occasions. You should have different clothes for different occasions. You must distinguish between office, meeting, home and travel clothes and don't mix them together.

Men don't need a lot of clothes, and they don't have to be all high-end, but you must have one or two good sets of clothes. After all, clothes made of different materials have different shapes and give people different feelings. You have to wear them to look neat, generous, simple and capable.

It is best not to wear fancy clothes. Celebrities can be a bit flashy, but you should not. The colors should not be too bright. It is best not to wear more than three colors on your body.

As for matching, you can learn online, there are many courses on matching. Through learning, you can find the most suitable color and style for yourself, make the best use of your strengths and overcome your weaknesses, and maximize your image through dressing.

3. Others.

Once upon a time, the term "middle-aged greasy man" became a very popular term, forcing many men to seriously examine themselves and see if they had become the wretched image in the eyes of others: big belly, love to wear beads, wear Tang suits, beards all over the face, soak wolfberries, pretend to be artistic, grow nails, love to drink tea, turn up the collar, wear gold chains...

To avoid these, we also need to develop good living habits, have our own aesthetic tastes, and learn self-discipline. Wearing necklaces is not good, but we can wear watches; having a big belly is not good, we can exercise more and drink less beer... Don't blindly follow others and think it is fashionable, but it is actually a very tasteless behavior.

In short, improving your image is a science that requires us to learn all our lives. A man with a good image will not only make others feel comfortable, but more importantly, it will help you succeed. As long as you work hard, you will be the most handsome guy on this street.