Lolita tea party notes Lolita matching rules

The lolita circle holds various large and small events every year, among which the most famous is the lolita tea party. Hundreds of lolita girls hold lolita fashion shows, chat and eat snacks in the venue, which is quite interesting. What should you pay attention to when participating in lolita for the first time? Newbies should learn quickly~

The so-called Lolita tea party refers to a gathering of lolita girls. In such occasions, they usually chat, drink tea, eat snacks, share knowledge and information about small skirts, etc. Everyone speaks freely at the tea party, just like ordinary friends. Most of the lolita girls who come to the tea party are girls from ordinary families. In such a harmonious atmosphere, there is mostly no contempt chain.

As we all know, the lolita girls who attend tea parties are generally those who have been in the circle for many years, so they will never tolerate the existence of counterfeit Lolita dresses. Wearing a counterfeit dress to a tea party is the first taboo. The Lolita fashion circle pays great attention to originality. Most lolita girls can accept second-hand skirts and cheap skirts as long as they are original clothes. But some lolita girls buy the skirts even though they know they are counterfeit in order to save money, and even wear them to the tea party. If you violate such a taboo, it is very likely that you will be kicked out by the organizer. Some newbies who have just entered the circle buy counterfeit goods because of their lack of shopping experience. This is understandable. Wearing to the tea party and being rejected can also be regarded as accumulating experience. Just pay more attention next time.

In the eyes of some sisters in the circle, the second taboo of the tea party is to wear a Lolita dress that does not suit you. For example, when you go to a tea party, if you wear a dress that exposes your body defects, you will be regarded as a joke. After all, the Lolita girls who come to this occasion pay attention to their personal image. Dressing yourself more exquisitely is not only beautifying yourself, but also respecting others. In addition, if you wear a Lolita dress that does not match your skin color to a tea party, it may also cause a lot of unnecessary embarrassment. Not only will your personal temperament be lost, but the Lolita girls present will also doubt whether you are an insider.

In addition to the above two precautions, the third taboo of the tea party is to be too lolita. The so-called too lolita means only wearing the skirt of the Lolita dress, and the other items are all daily clothes. This will make many lolita girls look both formal and formal, which is very weird. Many people in the circle often think that the Lolita dress is too exaggerated and don’t want to wear a full set. This may be easy to accept in daily life, but such an outfit at the tea party will inevitably cause public outrage. Because in the eyes of many lolita girls, the tea party is not only a private gathering, but also a Lolita cultural exchange meeting. Everyone attaches great importance to it. If you dress too casually, you may be refused entry by the organizer.

In short, although the Lolita tea party is an occasion without a clear contempt chain, all lolita girls should still keep in mind the precautions when attending such occasions to avoid unnecessary embarrassment.

Actually, I want to discuss this issue with you today because Lolita culture has been widely popularized. Some people who follow the trend blindly bought a small skirt before they fully understood Lolita culture. Not only did they make mistakes in the purchase method, but they were also very "confused" in the matching of clothes. They looked very strange when they said they were neither lolita nor daily life. In addition, a style called "pain lo" has evolved. But the editor wants to say, don't insist on the pain lo style anymore. It's really ugly if you don't have good looks.

First of all, let's explain the definition of pain lolita. It means wearing Lolita clothes without full set, that is, without wearing KC, inner wear, skirt and other Lolita related accessories. However, in recent years, more and more girls in our country wear Lolita, and the Lolita circle is not as strict as imagined. People's tolerance for pain lolita and light lolita is gradually increasing. But what I want to say is that if you don't know how to match, you should not try the pain lolita style easily.

I have seen a post where some lolita girls said that they can accept lolita, but when wearing Lolita, can they improve their aesthetics and matching skills, because lolita is really "ugly". But I think that we should first solve the most basic problem of neatness. Because I have really encountered the kind of white pantyhose balloons, blackening, and "death folds" of Lolita skirts, which are "eye-catching" to anyone.

In fact, Lolita clothing has certain limitations, so it is easier for us to match them. You will never go wrong if you match them in the same color scheme. In addition, you can choose the corresponding items according to the style of the Lolita skirt. For example, if it is a sweet style, we can choose the same elements on the skirt, which will be more coordinated. If you still don’t know how to match, you can learn from the model’s outfit.

The editor also has a little trick, that is, according to your own body shape, pay attention to the corresponding grass-planting machine models, and see how they dress in the pictures they return. In this way, it will be easy to learn. The editor believes that when wearing Lolita clothing, you must first be neat and tidy, and then dress according to your own style, so that it will not look so strange. However, everyone has different aesthetics, and we cannot use our own standards to judge others. Doing so is very impolite.

After saying so much, do you have a clearer understanding of how to wear Lolita clothing? In fact, as long as we do the most basic neatness, we are halfway to success. But if you want to wear your own unique style, you need to try many times. Regarding the issue of aesthetics, everyone is different from each other. Just wear what you like. Others have no right to judge you.